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silverfoxesclub-digest
Wednesday, October 18 2000
Volume 01 : Number 017

In this issue:

-Send in the Clowns
-Monica....again!
-"Don't ask, don't tell, military go to hell!"
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Date: Tue, 17 Oct 2000 12:25:19 -0700
From: "Ben Boxer"

Subject: Send in the Clowns

The Silverfoxes Clubhouse server seems to have been down all night and this morning. I am trying to contact them (on the East Coast of the U.S.A.) to see what's wrong, but meanwhile I have uploaded yesterday's Silverfoxes Club List Digest 016 to the Web. It's in another domain and should not be affected by the other server.

I am telling you this because some of the mail came back that contained the midi (music) playing Stephen Sondheim's beautiful "Send in the Clowns." I guess some servers can't handle a file of that type. Sorry.

But as I promised in the posting, you can go hear it on the Web in the new digest at http://www.boxersfoxes.com/Digests/Digest016.html and also see the picture of gay silverfox Stephen Sondheim.

The pictures are all stripped from the digest, but I have started putting in some of the article-related pix with the on-line digest. Not the nude pix. Those will go into the Silverfoxes Club Image Archives for your private viewing as members.

Please note that I have changed the username and password yesterday and announced it to you on the list.

I am going to establish another set of archives at the Snooker Club soon, but your free membership in the Silverfoxes Club will not get you through that members-only door. The limited revenue from the Snooker Club memberships is what keeps the Silverfoxes Clubhouse free. Being on the Web and using a fabulous amount of bandwidth is not cheap! The Clubhouse is a gobbler of bandwidth - -- thousands of people in there every day.

Speaking of gobbling bandwidth, I didn't even know what that was when I first got active on the Web in 1997. I didn't know how to upload my first Web column, Boxer's Shorts, and there was no Clubhouse at that time. I was in somebody else's domain, in Georgia (U.S.A.) The webmaster was a foxhunter who didn't know what I looked like. All he knew was that he liked my postings to the list we were on. When he bought his domain, he asked me do a column for him.

Shortly thereafter, a boyfriend of mine got me to take off my clothes when we were shacked up at a Motel Six in Palm Springs and pose for the camera. No way was I going to pose in the nude! I kept on my briefs. I sent that picture to the webmaster in Georgia just to show him what I looked like.

You have to know I was very new at the Silverfoxes Syndrome (which I named). I had only stumbled across it at Chardees in Ft. Lauderdale, FL, in mid-1997. I had thought my life was over. Finished. Finito.

Six months later, I was writing a column on the Web and people were beginning to know my name, and the webmaster LOVED the little Polaroid photo I sent him (in my underwear). He put it on the Web and then asked for more.

So I stripped all the way and made a nude pictorial which the webmaster put on his domain along with other pix of old men. and then his domain really flew. It flew so fast and so high that he had to cut his site back because it was using so much bandwidth and had started to cost him a fortune.

The he suddenly met a charming silverfox, gave up his site and moved to Florida where, I hope, he lives in domestic bliss to this day.

So there I was with no place to put my column or my pix. I thought my roller coaster ride was over -- when out of the blue another foxhunter from the South who had seen my pix and thought I was hot volunteered to open up a small site just to feature me.

It was an offer I could not refuse. and THAT is how I found out about bandwidth getting eaten alive. The foxhunter contacted me the first weekend my column and pictures went up on his tiny site. He was breathless. He told me he had a stream of visitors viewing my pix at an average rate of 400 per hour night and day. He went over the top. He couldn't afford to keep it up past the first of the week!

Long story short....some other Internet friends from convinced me to go on the Web myself. The next week the Clubhouse was born.

Since then, the Clubhouse has been host to several million unique visits downloading mostly pictures even more millions of times. What hungry bears! Bandwidth is their meat!

That first nude pictorial of mine is still at the Clubhouse. It's called "Slippery When Wet," a name given it by a gentleman in England. One of the pictures from it is a Virtual Greeting Card at the Clubhouse, called "Wish You Were Here." It's the only card with me on it presently on that page. I have attached it to this posting.

Which reminds me, people are already sending out scores of the new Halloween cards since I made them this weekend, plus a lot of the other cards which are there. There will be half a dozen Thanksgiving cards, too, but not till after Trick or Treat on October 31.
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Date: Wed, 18 Oct 2000 02:45:26 -0700
From: "Ben Boxer"

Subject: "Don't ask, don't tell, military go to hell!"

Ben Boxer comments on the below: The military came calling, but the only person in proper uniform was Mr. McKewen. See the end of the story.

Headline:
After 22 Years, N.Y.U. Allows an Army Recruiter to Visit
(New York Times 10/18/00)

Text:
Defense Department recruiter visited New York University Law School yesterday . the first permitted there in 22 years . and in a scene reminiscent of the Vietnam protests of 30 years ago, the event was marked by scores of protesters who chanted, hooted and called for her to leave.

Like some colleges and graduate programs, the law school has barred military recruiters because the Defense Department refuses to employ men or women who are openly gay.

The school reluctantly agreed to admit a recruiter after the Defense Department issued regulations in January saying that it would withdraw all research funds from a university if any of its divisions kept its recruiters out.

Until this year, the department withheld its funds just from the division that barred the recruiters. The earlier policy meant that the law school, which has long been known as a congenial school for gay students, lost about $75,000 in student aid.

But the university had more at stake. It receives more than $200 million in Defense Department research funds, about two-thirds of which go to its medical school. The general counsel's office at the university advised the law school over the summer that in light of the new regulations, it should allow a recruiter to visit.

While the school allowed Capt. Ann H. Zgrodnik, a recruiter from the Army Judge Advocate General's Corps, to spend yesterday in Lipton Hall, many faculty members, students and administrators made clear their distaste for the visit.

About 100 students in pink armbands and neon stickers turned out in the common room at the law school's D'Agostino Hall on West Third Street to voice their dismay in a lively but orderly protest.

"Don't ask, don't tell, military go to hell," they chanted.

John Sexton, the law school dean, said in a letter to the faculty that members of the law school would explore "whether the new regulations might be challenged as illegal, and how the N.Y.U. Law School might contribute to such an effort."

Stephen Gillers, vice dean of the law school, said that the school itself could not bring a lawsuit but that individual faculty members, students or the university could. He said the Association of American Law Schools, the American Council on Education and other education groups in Washington had protested the new regulations to the Defense Department.

The law school also decided that every time a military recruiter visited the school, it would publicize the military's unwillingness to sign the school's nondiscrimination policy.

Many law school faculty members also signed a public statement saying they deplored the new Defense Department recruiting policy because it compromised their freedom to set ethical standards for student recruiting and "conscripts us into complicity with policies that unjustly degrade fellow persons."

In a statement released by university officials, Captain Zgrodnik declined to be interviewed. But Lt. Col. Catherine Abbott, a spokeswoman for the Defense Department, said yesterday that allowing the military to recruit on campuses "is the law" made by Congress.

"We want students to be able to make informed decisions," she said. "We are not asking for any greater access than anyone else has."

Martha Rudd, a spokeswoman for the Army, said yesterday that 23 schools either turned away Army recruiters last year or gave them unequal access, like requiring them to interview in less desirable places.

Some professors who joined the protest yesterday said they opposed military recruiting because the Defense Department would not abide by the nondiscriminatory policies other recruiters endorse.

"It is particularly galling to be forced to do this under regulations that I think are illegal," said Sylvia A. Law, a law school professor and chairwoman of the school's placement committee, who said she might file a lawsuit over the department's new regulations.

If there was any dissension from the protest, it was not visible yesterday.

Some of the protesters signed up for interviews with Captain Zgrodnik. Richard McKewen, a third-year law student and editor in chief of the N.Y.U. Review of Law and Social Change, told the cheering crowd that he had told the recruiter that by working for the military, "You are complicit in your institution's bigotry, and you personally are not welcome here."

Someone in the crowd shouted, "Did you tell her you were gay?"

Mr. McKewen grinned and gestured to his costume, which included a golden tiara and a black feather boa, as well as cargo shorts and sneakers.

"If she couldn't read the signals," he said, "then the military's worse off than we thought."

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