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silverfoxesclub-digest
Thursday, November 2 2000
Volume 01 : Number 032

In this issue:

-Joseph Fiennes
-Believe it or not
-Normal, Ohio
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Date: Wed, 1 Nov 2000 11:07:52 -0800
From: "Ben Boxer"

Subject: Joseph Fiennes

Joe Fiennes (pronounced "fines") is the hot younger brother of Ralph (pronounced "rayph" instead of like American "ralph...these guys are Irish-born but brought up in England) Fiennes. Ralph, of course, was one of the stars (with Liam Neeson, etc.) of "Schindler's List." Joe, shown here, starred in "Elizabeth" and also in "Shakespeare in Love," but the acting honors went to Gwyneth Paltrow and Dame Judi Dench. He should have won something, as he was sexy and petulant and convincing as Dudley, the presumed lover of Queen Elizabeth I of England, and was so gayly scintillating as Shakespeare "in love" that he made it easy to imagine the great poet-playwright writing the "dark sonnets" to an unknown male lover. Paltrow won the Academy Award for her role in the latter film as the fictional girl who inspired this fictional Shakespeare to write "Romeo and Juliet," but she had the good grace to wave her Oscar at the Los Angeles ceremony, proclaiming to the world, "This is for Joe!" Right on, babe! The only thing better than that would have been a trans-Atlantic shot of Joe waving HIS "oscar" (hee hee!) right back!
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Date: Wed, 01 Nov 2000 18:29:28 -0700
From:

Subject: Believe it or not

You may remember that on July 8, 1947, witnesses claim a spaceship with five aliens aboard crashed on a sheep-and-cattle ranch outside Roswell, New Mexico.

This is an incident, that many say has been covered up by the government. However, you may not realize that on March 31, 1948, exactly nine months after that day, Al Gore was born.
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Date: Thu, 2 Nov 2000 00:14:11 -0800
From: "Ben Boxer"

Subject: Normal, Ohio

John Goodman debuted his new TV series, "Normal, Ohio," on the Fox Channel tonight (Wed., 11/01/00), and even if you don't like sitcoms (like me), you might enjoy this one. Goodman plays a middle-aged chub who divorced his wife and left his family after finding out he was gay. He moved to California and in this first episode, entitled "Homecoming Queen," that's just what he is -- a queen who has come home to Normal, Ohio, after his initial ventue into the great, gay world.

Of course, his family is totally fucked up, but the viewer is left with the feeling that Goodman is the only sane member of it, and thank God he got away.

There are some great lines and a funny, idiotic silverfox of a grandfather (Orson Bean) who hates the fact that his son (Goodman) is gay. Goodman gets off a good one at his son's party celebrating the kid's acceptance at medical school when he proposes a toast "to the day you come home knowing enough about surgery to cut your grandfathers's head out of his ass!"

The family's embarrassment over Goodman's being gay hilariously points up their own dysfunctionality as people and family members. Despite the hokum, the episode followed a path which would be considered a true one by anyone who has experienced the ignorance and meanness of many around a gay person who emerges from the closet at last.

Even the episode's climax illustrates the perversity of people who cannot accept the gay difference in someone they have previously thought straight, i.e. nothing Goodman does, no matter how right, can be good.

In one scene, he asks his son if the boy is happy now that the kid has achieved the goal of becoming a pre-med student. He tells the boy further that what matters to him as his father is that his son is happy within himself, no matter what the world thinks of him.

Obviously, Goodman is revealing the central factor in his own life -- having given up everything the world expected him to be so he could find happiness at last in simply being unapologetically himself.

Unwittingly, he has planted a seed in his son's mind, which blooms in the kid's stunning announcement at the party later that he doesn't really want to go to med school because it doesn't make him happy and, like his dad, he thinks it is better to be himself, no matter what.

Goodman endures the family's rage philosphically, and reveals at the end of the episode that he is not returning to California. He is going to stay in Normal, Ohio.

What I liked most about the episode apart from its solid comedic structure was Goodman's straightforward and honest performance as a gay man in this situation. There was nothing snide in his approach, or stupid. He was bright and light. Yeah! A bit light in the sneakers, hee hee, but he wore them well!

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