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Silverfoxesclub-digest
Tuesday, January 9 2001
Volume 01 : Number 102

In this issue:

Re: After prostate removal (2)
Re: Intergenerational Relationships (4)
The other Fergie
Hot Men (2)
MTV to run list of hate-crimes victims
MacWorld Expo SF 2001
FIJI cross post (2)

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From: "marcione" marcione@msn.com
Subject: Re: After prostate removal

I don't know what all the fuss is about I had a very dear friend who had his prostate removed and other than his fear of a little leakage every now and then he was most certainly one of the most passionate lovers I've ever come across. Unfortunately he passed on, but not from prostate cancer but lung cancer and I still miss him dearly. The thing that keeps me going is that I sincerely feel that we will meet again in that life known as the hereafter.
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From: "Geof" geofalle@tpg.com.au
Subject: prostate removal.

Dear Ben
I was interested in the recent comments on the list about prostate removal.

I have suffered from a benign enlarged prostate for some years. Last year I had to have an emergency operation, a trans urethral resection of the prostate (turp). This has not affected my performance. I still get good erections and wonderful orgasms, but there is no ejaculation. My surgeon tells me that the semen goes back into the bladder. My question is, given that I still have most of my enlarged prostate still present, are there any problems associated with anal penetration.
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From: ypvs@freeuk.com
Subject: Re: Intergenerational Relationships

Hi Ben and the list,
Just wanted to drop a quick line to say thanks to everyone who has written to me about my piece on Intergenerational Relationships.

I've had many people write to me direct in response, so if you don't get a reply from for a while please note that I will do my best to get back to you asap.

Being a young man I have to work all day, and also being a musician I rehearse with my band at nights. I don't have that much spare time so I can't get back to you all instantly, as much as I would like to!

So please bear with me, and I'll do my best to reply to all who wrote to me.

Hugs (with BIG hugs to the lovely Ben),
Chas
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From: ravee r ravee69@yahoo.com
Subject: Re: Intergenerational Relationships

Hi guys
Thought i'd pen a few words on the above subject as i'm 28 yrs old and LOVE older men. My current lover is only 11 years older than me but normally i prefer guys much older- anyone ove 50! Why do i prefer older men? Well for several reasons. The first is bec i have always enjoyed the company of older people more than those my age. I guess i'm an old guy in the body of a younger guy:-) Also i prefer the stability of an older man- not financially- as i hold a very good job that pays very well, but simply that they are more stable in life. Less flighty and tend not to change their minds so often as they've lived life long enough to know what they like and what they don't as well as the types of guys they like.

My previous lover was 58 and i was only 24 when we went out and i find that he is even more stable than my current lover. I get annoyed when guys stand in front of the mirror and say "i'm too fat, I wish i had bigger balls, i wish i had a longer cock, i think my legs are too big, etc etc." Saying these things to your lover is fine but to go on about it the whole time drives me up the wall!! If your lover has no complaints then why are you worrying about it??!! I find that generally older gys are not so caught up about their bodies and know that we love them as they are and that's that!! There are more important things in life and in a realtionship than if your butt looks too big!!

Older guys are also better lovers!!! They are not so caught up about trying to perform the whole Kama Sutra and prefer to just do the things which they know drives most guys and especially their lovers wild. Frequency to me is not as important as doing it to your best effort when you do it. Also find that older guys prefer to kiss and cuddle more than younger guys do and sometimes there's nothing more satisfying than lying with your lover talking, kissing & cuddling for hours on end.

I know i've generalised but just my personal observations about older men and why i LOVE them!! Any older men traveling to my side of the world (Singapore/Malaysia) are, as always welcome to get in touch! Take care you guys!

Love
Ravee :-)
XXX
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From: "victore" victore@onetel.net.uk
Subject: Intergenerational atttraction

Hi Ben,
As a new member of your club I must begin by thanking you for all the hard you put in on your site. It really is great and very interesting and not just the pics of foxhunters. Yes I am an oldie looking for younger. When I look at myself in a mirror I'm not surprised that younger guys are not interested. Bald, bespectacled, sagging pecs, sagging crinkly butt, why should they be interested? Well the integenerational correspondence has given the answer. Everyone is different with a very wide variety of likes and dislikes. Let's just be grateful that whatever your age, young or old, and whatever the packaging looks like, someone somewhere will find you attractive. Reevee is right - make the most of what you have, don't do yourself down if you're not in the first flush of youth or even the second or third. You're loveable and likeable as you are and for what you are.. Easy to say but hard to do. Well, I find it hard anyway.

And that brings me to my question. People have said what attracts them to older men and vice verse but what is the purpose of the attraction? Is it just 'the lusts of the flesh' or something more? I suppose that as people are attracted by different things so there are a wide variety of motives resulting in the attraction.

I think I've waffled long enough . I attach a pic so that you can see the author and someone out there might reply direct. Ever hopeful.

Keep up the good work, Ben.
Victor
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From: RogueKC@AOL.COM
Subject: Re: Intergenerational atttraction

Thankfully, Dear Victor, there are men of the world with tremendous taste. We are the very men who love and appreciate men of wisdom, experience and virtue.

Men like you.

We are men who reject our peers for their lack of experience or virtue, lack of wisdom of valued life experience... and dare I say, lack of "character marks".

When I shop for silver, I never buy new. It's far too brassy, too shiny, too pretentious.

I look for silver that has been around for many years, that has character marks, that has a history to it. When I take out the polish and shine it up, lo and behold, it is the most beautiful substance the world has ever seen.

It is shiny as anything that has ever lived, it has character, it is brilliant, it has history, it glows, it has it's OWN history to share, and it is like nothing else I've ever seen, or will ever see again.

It is magical.

Peace.

Terry in KC
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From: "Ben Boxer" benboxer@mediaone.net
Subject: The other Fergie

You silverfoxes who like the youngers should take a peek at the attached -- Duncan Ferguson, a champion footballer who plays for Everton in England. He's in the news this week not for sports, but for having triumphed over a couple of burglars who entered his home. He kicked ass and busted chops to a fare thee well. One of them got away, but the other he collared till the cops came. Hell, if he had that kind of grip on me, I'd have come long before the coppers got there!
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From: Beernskoal@AOL.COM
Subject: Hot Men

The great pics of hot silver foxes keep coming. I had seen "Good 'ole Boy" before, and damn IS he good! I had heard that he was in some daddy videos; if anyone knows what videos or where to find them, please post to the list or let me know. Another hot pic, "Dad's Pec and Pecker", looks like it might be from a video I'd love to have. Also by chance if you hot men in those pics (like "My Turn to Top") are reading this, I would be happy for you to drop me a note.

Thanks to Ben for all of his hard work--Ben, your hard work keeps me hard!
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From: "Dave C...." southern_son69@hotmail.com
Subject: Re: Hot Men

Hell--I'd gladly pay any SilverFox to make me a personal home video--for my own personal use of course...

I also trade...

David
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From: "Ben Boxer" benboxer@mediaone.net
Subject: MTV to run list of hate-crimes victims

Headline:
MTV to run list of hate-crimes victims
(The Advocate, 01/08/01)

Text:
MTV will interrupt its regular programming for 17 hours next week to run a continuous list of hate-crimes victims names. The list will be aired beginning at 10 p.m. Eastern time on Wednesday to mark the start of a yearlong public service campaign against discrimination. It will run without commercials and will cost MTV about $2 million in ad revenue. Our hope is, it really gets the attention of our audience and motivates them to get involved, Brian Graden, the networks programming president, said. The campaign was prompted in part by an internal debate at the network over its promotion of rap star Eminem, whose lyrics have been criticized by activists as antigay. The network also plans to air a made-for-television movie next week about the murder of University of Wyoming student Matthew Shepard. The movie has not been authorized by Shepards parents, Judy and Dennis, who are working with actress Goldie Hawn on a made-for-TV movie to air later on NBC.

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From: "KU627" ku627@hotmail.com
Subject: MacWorld Expo SF 2001

Mac Users / list members,
I'll be at Moscone Center in the morning Tuesday and Wednesday, Whole day Thursday and Friday. I don't know how many list members are going there, but I'll wear a baseball cap (MW EXPO SF2000) with two paper clips on. Are you willing to do the same? I'll be around at SONY Metreon, Microsoft SF and CompUSA as well.

Hope to see you there.

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From: RogueKC@AOL.COM
Subject: Re: FIJI cross post

PS... If there are some of you adult fellows who are due for a break and ready for a relaxed week or ten days with no pressure, discussion of philosophy, religion, politics, personalities, or nothing more than grunts about how pretty the sunsets are while taking turns cooking dinner, get in touch with me.

I hate planning a vacation alone, and the thought of having a sexy horny Dad helping out with this is very enticing. Never any pressure, just a beginning of a friendship on a plan followed by a secluded week on a beach. What an adventure! If you're feeling brave and free, drop a pic and a note, and let's walk on the sand.

T in KC
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From: RogueKC@AOL.COM
Subject: FIJI cross post

OK, Men,
I've gotten lots of wonderful feedback, and I appreciate it greatly. This 36 year-old thinks an immediate trip to FIJI is what the Doctor ordered.

Who wants to come along? Who wants to offer travel advice? I'm thinking a small, rustic cabin on the beach in a cove, isolated, where the days will be spent hanging in a hammock and lying on the beach, snorkeling, contemplating the simpler things in life like waves, shells, sunsets... Anybody interested?

If you want another pic, just ask... I prefer mature fit fellows, hairy is of course a plus, masculine, secure with self, warm and friendly... without all those things, I suppose I'd rather just hang in the hammock by myself.

Anybody out there with travel advice or good helpful feedback?

Thank you in advance for all your help, guys. You've been troopers, and extremely helpful, just like I knew you'd be.

Thank you, Winners.

Peace.

Terry in KC
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