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Re: After prostate removal (2)
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I don't know what all the fuss is about I had a very dear friend who had his
prostate removed and other than his fear of a little leakage every now and
then he was most certainly one of the most passionate lovers I've ever come
across. Unfortunately he passed on, but not from prostate cancer but lung
cancer and I still miss him dearly. The thing that keeps me going is that I
sincerely feel that we will meet again in that life known as the hereafter.
Dear Ben
I have suffered from a benign enlarged prostate for some years. Last year I
had to have an emergency operation, a trans urethral resection of the
prostate (turp). This has not affected my performance. I still get good
erections and wonderful orgasms, but there is no ejaculation. My surgeon
tells me that the semen goes back into the bladder. My question is, given
that I still have most of my enlarged prostate still present, are there any
problems associated with anal penetration.
Hi Ben and the list, I've had many people write to me direct in response, so if you don't get a reply from for a while please note that I will do my best to get back to you asap. Being a young man I have to work all day, and also being a musician I rehearse with my band at nights. I don't have that much spare time so I can't get back to you all instantly, as much as I would like to! So please bear with me, and I'll do my best to reply to all who wrote to me.
Hugs (with BIG hugs to the lovely Ben),
Hi guys My previous lover was 58 and i was only 24 when we went out and i find that he is even more stable than my current lover. I get annoyed when guys stand in front of the mirror and say "i'm too fat, I wish i had bigger balls, i wish i had a longer cock, i think my legs are too big, etc etc." Saying these things to your lover is fine but to go on about it the whole time drives me up the wall!! If your lover has no complaints then why are you worrying about it??!! I find that generally older gys are not so caught up about their bodies and know that we love them as they are and that's that!! There are more important things in life and in a realtionship than if your butt looks too big!! Older guys are also better lovers!!! They are not so caught up about trying to perform the whole Kama Sutra and prefer to just do the things which they know drives most guys and especially their lovers wild. Frequency to me is not as important as doing it to your best effort when you do it. Also find that older guys prefer to kiss and cuddle more than younger guys do and sometimes there's nothing more satisfying than lying with your lover talking, kissing & cuddling for hours on end. I know i've generalised but just my personal observations about older men and why i LOVE them!! Any older men traveling to my side of the world (Singapore/Malaysia) are, as always welcome to get in touch! Take care you guys!
Love
Hi Ben, And that brings me to my question. People have said what attracts them to older men and vice verse but what is the purpose of the attraction? Is it just 'the lusts of the flesh' or something more? I suppose that as people are attracted by different things so there are a wide variety of motives resulting in the attraction. I think I've waffled long enough . I attach a pic so that you can see the author and someone out there might reply direct. Ever hopeful.
Keep up the good work, Ben. Thankfully, Dear Victor, there are men of the world with tremendous taste. We are the very men who love and appreciate men of wisdom, experience and virtue. Men like you. We are men who reject our peers for their lack of experience or virtue, lack of wisdom of valued life experience... and dare I say, lack of "character marks". When I shop for silver, I never buy new. It's far too brassy, too shiny, too pretentious. I look for silver that has been around for many years, that has character marks, that has a history to it. When I take out the polish and shine it up, lo and behold, it is the most beautiful substance the world has ever seen. It is shiny as anything that has ever lived, it has character, it is brilliant, it has history, it glows, it has it's OWN history to share, and it is like nothing else I've ever seen, or will ever see again. It is magical. Peace.
Terry in KC
You silverfoxes who like the youngers should take a peek at the attached --
The great pics of hot silver foxes keep coming. I had seen "Good 'ole Boy" before, and damn IS he good! I had heard that he was in some daddy videos; if anyone knows what videos or where to find them, please post to the list or let me know. Another hot pic, "Dad's Pec and Pecker", looks like it might be from a video I'd love to have. Also by chance if you hot men in those pics (like "My Turn to Top") are reading this, I would be happy for you to drop me a note.
Thanks to Ben for all of his hard work--Ben, your hard work keeps me hard!
Hell--I'd gladly pay any SilverFox to make me a personal home video--for my own personal use of course... I also trade...
David
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Mac Users / list members, Hope to see you there.
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PS... If there are some of you adult fellows who are due for a break and ready for a relaxed week or ten days with no pressure, discussion of philosophy, religion, politics, personalities, or nothing more than grunts about how pretty the sunsets are while taking turns cooking dinner, get in touch with me. I hate planning a vacation alone, and the thought of having a sexy horny Dad helping out with this is very enticing. Never any pressure, just a beginning of a friendship on a plan followed by a secluded week on a beach. What an adventure! If you're feeling brave and free, drop a pic and a note, and let's walk on the sand.
T in KC
OK, Men, Who wants to come along? Who wants to offer travel advice? I'm thinking a small, rustic cabin on the beach in a cove, isolated, where the days will be spent hanging in a hammock and lying on the beach, snorkeling, contemplating the simpler things in life like waves, shells, sunsets... Anybody interested? If you want another pic, just ask... I prefer mature fit fellows, hairy is of course a plus, masculine, secure with self, warm and friendly... without all those things, I suppose I'd rather just hang in the hammock by myself. Anybody out there with travel advice or good helpful feedback? Thank you in advance for all your help, guys. You've been troopers, and extremely helpful, just like I knew you'd be. Thank you, Winners. Peace.
Terry in KC
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