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-Some thoughts Hi, list friends. Many of you have really been nice and contacted me to congratulate me for the way I try to overcome my blindness and for Harley's good looks, and I certainly appreciate it a great deal! I wanted to mention something that has crossed my mind, and I think it is important. I think that often, disabled people are respected, but from afar. We are almost put on a pedestal because we have to live with a difficult situation; we are perhaps admired, but not really accepted--not really "one of the guys" because people are somewhat awed and perhaps uncomfortable by our disabilities. In my case, what I'm trying to say is that, if there are those among you who have thought of getting to know me through email, and possibly later, through phone calls, please feel free to do so. I am just one of you who perhaps has been given a different hand in life, but I don't want to be set apart because of it. I am not sure if this is coming out too clearly, but I hope it makes sense. What I'm saying is: as important as blindness is, and as much as it needs to be taken into consideration and made part of the mix, I don't want it the total focal point, or something that inhibits further contact.
Hugs, The following text was in and advertisement for a new club soon to be opening in the Detroit area. I thought you all might get a kick out of it.
dave aka luvhog 1. Tip! Tip! Tip! Dancers do not get paid by the club, so if you like one of our guys, show your appreciation by tipping him in the "appropriate" places.. .and if your from Canada, watch where you stick those Loonies. 2. Be kind and gentle! While enjoying a private dance, rather than grabbing, we suggest you gently lean into the groin area and simply smell the bouquet. 3. Body Odor! (Yours) No tip is big enough to interest a dancer if you stink. So brush, brush, brush before you come and please remember to shower. It's a very small club. 4. Share your toys! Enjoy a 'quick' conversation with any of our dancers but do not monopolize his time Other customers may be waiting to meet him Pass them around and share among one another. 5. Our 2-Man Shower Stall is for performance art Please refrain from jumping into the shower with our dancers unless it's your birthday 6. Never lower your hands under the table while sitting alone. We only shampoo the carpet once a month thank you very much 7. While at the urinal in the men's room, never "shake it" more than 3-5 times It may look suspicious and draw a crowd. And close the stall door behind you. You never know who might walk in on you. 8. Erections are permitted in the club conditional that they are left in your pants and not found wandenng the dark hallways or downstairs dungeon. 9. Dancers have feelings too! Please do not treat them like hustlers or prostitutes for hire They are studied theatrical performers showcasing their craft with pride and dignity
10. GO HOME EXHAUSTED! A small gay bed and breakfast was all abuzz about an afternoon wedding where the fox was 95 years old and the hunter was just 23 years old. The fox looked pretty feeble and the feeling was that the wedding night might kill him since his young hunter was a healthy, hunky guy. But lo and behold, the next morning, the hunter came down the main staircase slowly, step by step, hanging onto the banister for dear life. He finally managed to get to the counter of the little shop in the hotel. The clerk looked really concerned, "Whatever happened to you, dear? You look like you've been wrestling an alligator!"
The hunter groaned, hung on to the counter and managed to speak, "Geez, he
told me he'd been saving up for 75 years, and I thought he meant his money!"
Hello all, Thought it was necessary to bring this issue to the attention of the whole group, rather than the 1 individual who prompted me to respond. It deals with loneliness... A lot of you have responded to my e-mails and always let me know that you're lonely. You also let me know that most of us younger men don't care that you're lonely, that all we want is to treat you like a piece of meat and that's all that we're after. I, myself, always make friends first..If sex happens, good for us. I'm not the type that goes out looking for "empty sex", I got over that a long time ago because I'm the one who always got hurt (the tables were turned the other way, I kept hoping the older guy would want me for something else other than sex). But, I grew up and learned that things aren't always the way movies make it out to be. The thought of suicide was always on my mind, I figured if nobody wanted to spend some time with me, why bother sticking around? Being gay is hard enough, it takes a hell of a lot of guts to be one of us-it seems as though the whole world hates us just because we like people of our own sex. What's wrong with sucking cock? Women do it all the time-and nobody hates women because they like doing it with other women..go figure.... It always hurts when an older man thinks that just because a younger man is corresponding with him just because we want sex and that's it..nothing else, no friendship, just pure sex. It's bad to generalize any segment of society just because there's a couple of bad apples out there. It's like saying all of us gays child molesters. There are good people out here who really want to become your friend. I do wish I could help all of you single, lonely, older guys by visiting you personally, taking you out for a good time, then coming home and enjoy each other's company. If I could afford to travel the U.S. and visit you, I would. I can only do so much on e-mail. If you're really lonely, go out and meet people. They don't have to be "your type", a friend doesn't care what you look like, how old you are, or what your sexual preference is. There are a lot of lonely people out there that would like to meet you! My greatest fear is the day I lose my silverfox, I will become lonely also. But, I am not going to stay home and feel sorry for myself, I am going to find another one and have a go at it again! I myself can't handle being lonely. Instead of trying to push all of us away because you think we're only after your bodies, take a moment and think to yourself "Maybe this guy is different".. The person who prompted me to write this is one of the more "active" people on this listing, a very handsome man that I would do anything to meet him in person. I would spend time with you, would take you out to do whatever you wanted to do-then come home to you and spend every second possible admiring your beauty. I'd love to lay in bed next to you, caress your whole body, and make you feel loved. I hope you know who you are-you told me to spend a few days thinking about my response to your e-mail, it's been a few days.........
David
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