Subject: Conclusion of Oscar & Bosie
To judge from letters received today,
my little piece on Oscar Wilde and his
beloved Bosie captured the fancy of
quite a few Silverfoxes Club
members. Here is a conclusion to it,
limning by year the general pattern
of their relationship, plus a picture of
them together taken in 1893 when
Oscar was 39 and Bosie, 23.
1891
Tradition has it that Bosie was
formally introduced to Oscar Wilde
by Lionel Johnson when Oscar was
37 and Bosie 21. Oscar became so
enamored of Bosie he wrote a sonnet
to him, The New Remorse. Recent
discoveries indicate, however, that
they may actually have met four
years earlier, when Bosie was 16.
1892
Bosie introduced Oscar to his father,
the Marquess of Queensberry, at
lunch in the Cafe Royal, London.
The Marquess was an ill-tempered
bully of a man who, appropriately,
lent his patronage and his name to
the Marquess of Queensberry Rules
developed in 1867 by John Graham
Chambers to elevate roughhouse
pugilism to the gentlemanly sport of
boxing in order to attract a better
class of patrons to the matches.
1893
Oscar Wilde wrote an infamous
"prose poem" expressing his
infatuation and sent it to Bosie. It
was later translated to the French in
sonnet form and published, to the
everlasting embarrassment of the
Marquess of Queensberry, as well as
of Wilde's wife and family.
1894
Queensberry threatened to disown
Bosie, unless he ceased his
association with Wilde.
1895
Queensberry sent a card to Wilde at
the Albemarle Club, accusing Wilde
of "posing as a somdomite (sic)," a misspelling which gave the lie to his presumption of superiority to the most linguistically gifted writer of the age with the single exception of George Bernard Shaw. Foolishly, though,
Wilde retaliated with legal action
against the good advice of all his
friends, including the famous actress
Lily Langtry. The subsequent three
trials resulted in a two-year prison
sentence for Wilde, at hard labor. It
broke his body, but not his poet's
soul, for he continued to write
gloriously.
1897
Wilde was released from prison;
Bosie, still faithful and defiant of his
father, met him in Naples, Italy, on
September 4th. They enjoyed a brief,
passionate reconciliation, but Bosie
had to return to England.
1900
Now in Paris and destitute, Wilde
died unexpectedly on November 30th
at the age of 46.
Bosie was chief
mourner and paid the funeral
expenses for Oscar's interment in the
insignificant Bagneaux Cemetery.
There must have been plans to
transfer the body from the start,
since Wilde was buried in quicklime.
This was done to reduce the corpse
to bone, so moving it to another
location would be a 'clean' affair.
When the great day finally came,
however, the gravediggers were
shocked by the sinister sight of
Wilde: his body was preserved very
well and his hair and beard had
grown even longer. The quicklime
had only served to preserve the body,
instead of skeletizing it. Wilde's
remains were moved to Phre
Lachaise Cemetery on July 19, 1909.
He had to wait for another few years
before his monument was finished.
Not before 1914 the famous tomb
by Jacob Epstein
was unveiled. It had taken the
American three years to sculpt it.
When it was almost finished is was
found to be indecent by the
conservateur. This was resolved by a
plaque that served as a fig leaf to
cover the sculpture's penis. This
plaque was hacked away in 1922
(presumably by some students).
Actually, they hacked away a little
more than just the plaque! On the
back of the tomb there's a fragment
of his last major work, The Ballad of
Reading Gaol (English spelling for
"jail"):
And alien tears will fill for him
Pity's long broken urn
For his mourners will be outcast men
And outcasts always mourn
1901
In memory of Wilde, Bosie wrote one
of his most moving and finely written
sonnets, The Dead Poet.
1902
Bosie married, and spent his
remaining years as an editor and
poet, suing and being sued over
matters pertaining to Oscar Wilde
until his own death of congestive
heart failure in 1945 at the age of 74.
He spent much of his life in denial of
the sexual side of his relationship with
Wilde, but in the end it was clear that
Oscar had been his great and
perhaps his only love.
They will always be together in the
eyes of the world, as they should be.
------------------------------
Date: Fri, 1 Dec 2000 10:36:27 -0500 (EST)
From: Edward
Subject: World AIDS Day
To all,
Today is World AIDS Day. Let's all remember those who are fighting this
disease, and remember those whom have succumbed to it.
Edward
------------------------------
Date: Fri, 1 Dec 2000 07:42:12 -0800
From: "Ben Boxer"
Subject: Might be overheard in 2999
Things that might be overheard in 2999:
"Hi, I'm Dick Clark, here to count you down into the new millennium!"
"Okay, I'll go over it one more time: It doesn't really start until January
1, 3001, because..."
"I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of Microsoft..."
------------------------------
End of silverfoxesclub-digest V1 #62
************************************